February 19, 2018
Plenty of people don’t end up role-playing because they can’t think of a specific fantasy to enact. If you’re new to role-playing, I’d suggest starting with something simple and easy. There’s no need to get overly complex your first time! Pick scenarios that you’re already familiar with, to give you an idea of what to say and how to act.
Here are some easy role-play scenarios to consider. Read over this list and take a moment to visualize you and your boyfriend playing these roles (try reversing the roles in each scenario too!). See which ones grab your attention more than others.
You can get even more ideas by thinking about your childhood fantasies. What scenarios seemed erotic to you when you were growing up? Did you have a crush on your swim instructor or math tutor? Or maybe you dreamed about being a cheerleader?
Some people find the idea of acting out specific roles unappealing, and newbies to role-playing can be too intimidated by the thought of having to do a lot of acting. If that’s the case for you, keep in mind that you can role-play without having a complex backstory. You can pretend to be strangers who have never met before. That way, you still get to be yourself. Or you can trying playing with power dynamics instead. One person gets to be the boss and have complete control, while the other person has to be submissive and follow instructions.
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